What does a divorce attorney really cost?

It depends on the state, the lawyer and how contested the case is. Simple uncontested cases cost far less than contested ones that involve custody disputes or trial. Use the fee estimator to turn hourly rates and expected hours into a range, and ask each lawyer for a written estimate.

A retainer is an upfront deposit that the lawyer holds and bills against as work is done. Ask whether it is refundable if you do not use it and when you must replenish it. Rules for holding client funds are set by each state bar.

Generally no. Contingency fees in domestic relations matters are prohibited or heavily restricted in most states, because they can discourage reconciliation. Expect hourly or flat-fee billing instead.

By default each side pays its own lawyer. A court can order one spouse to contribute to the other's fees in some situations, often when there is a large income gap. This varies by state and is decided case by case.

Yes, you can represent yourself, and many courts provide self-help centers and standard forms. Self-representation is most workable when you agree with your spouse and have few assets. Consider at least a one-time consultation.

Settle as many issues as you can through mediation or negotiation, organize your documents, communicate efficiently and consider limited-scope help. Every hour of back-and-forth is billable, so focused communication directly saves money.

Some lawyers offer a free or reduced-price first meeting, and others charge their regular hourly rate. Ask when you book. A paid consultation can still be good value if it gives you a clear plan.